Discernment Counseling with Susan Lager LICSW, BCD
For Couples on the Brink
If you or your spouse are considering divorce but are not completely sure that's the best path, you are in a tough spot; Discernment Counseling is designed for you. It's a chance to slow down, take a breath, and look at the options for your marriage.

Discernment Counseling is not suited for these situations:
- When one spouse has already made a final decision to divorce
- When one spouse is coercing the other to participate
- When there is a danger of domestic violence
I'm very excited about Discernment Counseling, which serves "mixed agenda" couples in a very sensitive, unique, and productive way.
At the time of this writing, I am one of only a few clinicians in New Hampshire and Maine listed on the National Directory of Discernment Counselors, having been certified after completing the advanced level of training.
I am also a clinical member of The Doherty Relationship Institute Alliance, the research and training center for Discernment Counseling.
If you and your partner are candidates for Discernment Counseling, feel free to contact me at my Portsmouth office at 603-431-7131. I will be happy to provide you with more information or to schedule an initial appointment with you.
For more details about Discernment Counseling, go to Minnesota Couples on the Brink Project.
For lawyers and mediators interested in getting more information about the Doherty Relationship Institute Alliance for Marriage and Divorce Professionals, go to Doherty Relationship Institute Alliance for Marriage and Divorce Professionals.
For lawyers and mediators interested in getting more information about the Doherty Relationship Institute Alliance for Marriage and Divorce Professionals, go to: Doherty Relationship Institute Alliance for Marriage and Divorce Professionals
For more information about discernment counseling, please call (603) 431-7131 today!